How to Last longer In Bed, My Story
Hi, my name is Jim and I am an ex sufferer of premature ejaculation, how to last longer in bed was always a big problem for me. For years I put up with the embarrassment of this humiliating affliction. This was a few years ago now and after suffering this affliction well into my 20s, I finally overcome the problem.
I can relate to other sufferers after having suffered so long myself so I decided to put this website together to help. Throughout this site you will find lots of useful information to help you overcome premature ejaculation. You might first want to check what premature ejaculation actually is along with some premature ejaculation causes to give you a bit of a heads up for a start and to give you the beginnings of an understanding on exactly what is happening. I will also include a short story on my own personal and somewhat embarrassing experience the first time it happened to me.
Premature ejaculation and how to last longer in bed has been a hot topic of conversation among men for eons and from all four corners of the globe. I remember finally plucking up enough courage to talk about it with my friends and was the butt of jokes for a while. I realised however that this was part of the process of me getting over this humiliating problem. With eyes staring at the ground talking about it was very humiliating and depressing at the beginning but as time went by and realisation that a good few of my friends had the same problem it became easier. We even began to help each other out and compare notes so to speak.
Following is a short story on what happened to me when I was entering puberty. I thought my life was over, I was so embarrassed. I was very young and had absolutely no idea on what was happening.
A Personal Story
I was young (about 13) and about to start high school the first time I experienced premature ejaculation. I didn’t even know what had happened because in those days we didn’t learn much about the “birds and the bees” until we were beginning our teens. Mom and Dad certainly didn’t tell us much. In school we had these big black curtains that were pulled across to darken the room for films, they were very heavy and you couldn’t see through them at all. Two girls in our class that had obviously matured a bit faster than the rest of us would pull some of the boys behind the curtains when the opportunity presented itself and would grope and kiss them much to their delight. Not being the most popular in class with the girls, I would always miss out. However one day it was decided by these girls that it was my turn so I was yanked behind the curtain, kissed and groped which went on for all of a minute. All of a sudden a hot pleasurable flush came over me which I had only experienced before in my sleep. I could leave it to your imagination what had happened but other than a couple of wet dreams, (which I also had no idea what was happening) I had just had my first experience with premature ejaculation.
This was very embarrassing to say the least. It left me with a wet spot on my school pants and I was given a ribbing for ages after that experience. I thought I was scarred for life. Time went by and I tended to avoid these sort of encounters. I finally left school to begin work. I soon had a girlfriend at the ripe old age of sixteen. After going out on a date a few times and on about the third date, it happened again, I was done before I had even begun, I was so humiliated. It happened a couple more times before we decided to go our separate ways. I was a classic sufferer of premature ejaculation.
I withdrew a bit and tended not to get into situations that would embarrass me again. Life goes on and as I grew older I found the women of my dreams. I was very anxious on what would happen when we began to get intimate, the thought of how to last longer in bed made me ill. Eventually it happened, we became intimate and it happened again, I was done before I had even begun. I was gutted. To my surprise the girl of my dreams felt sorry for me, was very supportive and wanted to talk about it. We talked and talked about how we could overcome this problem. We looked for books and as much information that we could get our hands on in those days. Unlike today there were no “how to last longer in bed or premature ejaculation” programs to help us It was even before the internet and cell phones. (Showing my age here) We worked on it very hard and even though I had a few mishaps I finally got over my premature ejaculation and now have a very fulfilling and happy sex life.
In Conclusion
We often talk about our experiences and always wonder if I would have had the same problems if there were good programs like Ejaculation Trainer around in those days that would have helped me with my embarrassing affliction. If you are suffering from premature ejaculation and wondering how to last longer in bed, I sympathise with you. As you have just read, I can certainly relate to it which is the main reason I have set up this website, to try and help with as many tips and information I can provide.
So what happened to the girl of my dreams? She said “yes” and it is our twentieth wedding anniversary this year
